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Projection isn’t always negative—And that’s a problem
How we dangerously project the worst and the best of ourselves onto others
Aug 16
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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July 2025
From Bong men to Bombay: Why your truth doesn’t have to be mine
How to talk about our lived experiences without declaring them as a universal reality
Jul 31
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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Be a grammar monk, not a grammar nazi
Stop being a dick about "you're" vs "your"
Jul 12
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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June 2025
Romance was alive—until I opened his bathroom door
An exploration of what men’s bathrooms reveal (and ruin)
Jun 26
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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The most poetic thing is normalcy
The year I gave up on being the main character
Jun 19
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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Mujhe tumse Ishq nahi, bas Uns tha
The seven stages of love as per Sufi philosophy
Jun 12
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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Stop giving your younger self advice
Because regret is a scam and hindsight is a liar
Jun 5
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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May 2025
You're stupid if you're not being productive
On reclaiming time, effort, and joy—from capitalism, for myself
May 29
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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The Day I Killed My Father: Book review and quotes that marked me
On narrators who seduce, sin, and spiral
May 24
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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You're not a perpetual self-improvement project
Not every difficulty in life has to be turned into an opportunity for personal growth or healing
May 21
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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I am broken. And so are you
Stop pretending you’re untouched—nobody makes it through unscathed
May 15
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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First date reminder: This is not a love story, it's data collection
Notes for emotionally self-aware people trying to date without spiraling
May 8
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Hargun Kaur Sachdev
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